Lifestyle Definitions – H

Hard Core or Hard Swinging (Swingers)
A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected. This can entail anything from Full Swap to DP or Double Penetration. (See also Double Penetration and Bisexual)

Head
Oral-genital sexual activity; “Giving head” sucking motion, slang terms include, Blow Job, and Head or Giving Head.

Hedonist
The basic idea behind hedonistic thought or Hedonism is that pleasure is the only thing good for a person. Sometimes used to justify actions in terms of how much pleasure and how little pain a hedonist strives to maximize the pleasure (pleasure without pain)

Height/Weight Proportionate (HWP)
Someone that is not overweight or underweight.

Heterosexual
Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex, this involves men finding an attraction to women, and women who are attracted to men.

Homophobia
Is a negative feeling toward the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community.

Homosexual
One who enjoys and has sex with only the same sex, (See also Gay)

Horny
Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure, getting turned on, the act of wanting to have sex, having the mind and body crave and wants sex.

Host (Swingers-Host)
Host, or Swingers Host, an individual that has a place for swinging events, such as their household or their event location in which the host has secured a location for others to play. (See also Can Entertain)

Hung
Refers to a man with a large penis, in the swinging community it is not uncommon for a husband to want to watch a man that is hung have sexual intercourse with his wife. In some cases women have sex and make the husbands watch, this entails cuckold, or cuckolding. (Also See Cuckold)